diff --git a/app.py b/app.py
index bf2f838..e3e17a3 100644
--- a/app.py
+++ b/app.py
@@ -818,9 +818,7 @@ def followers():
         )
 
     raw_followers, older_than, newer_than = paginated_query(DB.activities, q)
-    followers = [
-        doc["meta"]["actor"] for doc in raw_followers if "actor" in doc.get("meta", {})
-    ]
+    followers = [doc["meta"] for doc in raw_followers if "actor" in doc.get("meta", {})]
     return htmlify(
         render_template(
             "followers.html",
@@ -857,7 +855,7 @@ def following():
 
     following, older_than, newer_than = paginated_query(DB.activities, q)
     following = [
-        (doc["remote_id"], doc["meta"]["object"])
+        (doc["remote_id"], doc["meta"])
         for doc in following
         if "remote_id" in doc and "object" in doc.get("meta", {})
     ]
diff --git a/core/migrations.py b/core/migrations.py
index 49cf534..8d7bcd4 100644
--- a/core/migrations.py
+++ b/core/migrations.py
@@ -14,9 +14,11 @@ from core.meta import FollowStatus
 from core.meta import MetaKey
 from core.meta import _meta
 from core.meta import by_actor_id
+from core.meta import by_object_id
 from core.meta import by_remote_id
 from core.meta import by_type
 from core.meta import in_inbox
+from core.meta import in_outbox
 from core.meta import not_undo
 from core.meta import upsert
 from utils.migrations import Migration
@@ -232,24 +234,6 @@ class _20190830_FollowFollowBackMigration(Migration):
             except Exception:
                 logger.exception(f"failed to process activity {data!r}")
 
-        for data in find_activities({**by_type(ap.ActivityType.FOLLOW), **in_inbox()}):
-            try:
-                accept_query = {
-                    **in_inbox(),
-                    **by_type(ap.ActivityType.ACCEPT),
-                    **by_actor_id(data["meta"]["actor_id"]),
-                    **not_undo(),
-                }
-                raw_accept = DB.activities.find_one(accept_query)
-                if raw_accept:
-                    DB.activities.update_many(
-                        accept_query,
-                        {"$set": {_meta(MetaKey.NOTIFICATION_FOLLOWS_BACK): True}},
-                    )
-
-            except Exception:
-                logger.exception(f"failed to process activity {data!r}")
-
         DB.activities.update_many(
             {
                 **by_type(ap.ActivityType.FOLLOW),
@@ -258,3 +242,54 @@ class _20190830_FollowFollowBackMigration(Migration):
             },
             {"$set": {"meta.follow_status": "waiting"}},
         )
+
+
+class _20190901_FollowFollowBackMigrationFix(Migration):
+    """Add the new meta flags for tracking accepted/rejected status and following/follows back info."""
+
+    def migrate(self) -> None:
+        for data in find_activities({**by_type(ap.ActivityType.ACCEPT), **in_inbox()}):
+            try:
+                update_one_activity(
+                    {
+                        **by_type(ap.ActivityType.FOLLOW),
+                        **by_remote_id(data["meta"]["object_id"]),
+                    },
+                    upsert({MetaKey.FOLLOW_STATUS: FollowStatus.ACCEPTED.value}),
+                )
+                # Check if we are following this actor
+                follow_query = {
+                    **in_inbox(),
+                    **by_type(ap.ActivityType.FOLLOW),
+                    **by_object_id(data["meta"]["actor_id"]),
+                    **not_undo(),
+                }
+                raw_follow = DB.activities.find_one(follow_query)
+                if raw_follow:
+                    DB.activities.update_many(
+                        follow_query,
+                        {"$set": {_meta(MetaKey.NOTIFICATION_FOLLOWS_BACK): True}},
+                    )
+
+            except Exception:
+                logger.exception(f"failed to process activity {data!r}")
+
+        for data in find_activities({**by_type(ap.ActivityType.FOLLOW), **in_outbox()}):
+            try:
+                print(data)
+                follow_query = {
+                    **in_inbox(),
+                    **by_type(ap.ActivityType.FOLLOW),
+                    **by_actor_id(data["meta"]["object_id"]),
+                    **not_undo(),
+                }
+                raw_accept = DB.activities.find_one(follow_query)
+                print(raw_accept)
+                if raw_accept:
+                    DB.activities.update_many(
+                        by_remote_id(data["remote_id"]),
+                        {"$set": {_meta(MetaKey.NOTIFICATION_FOLLOWS_BACK): True}},
+                    )
+
+            except Exception:
+                logger.exception(f"failed to process activity {data!r}")
diff --git a/templates/followers.html b/templates/followers.html
index f1bba01..c01f880 100644
--- a/templates/followers.html
+++ b/templates/followers.html
@@ -8,10 +8,16 @@
 {% include "header.html" %}
 
 <div id="followers">
-	{% for follower in followers_data %}
+	{% for meta in followers_data %}
+    {% set follower = meta.actor %}
     {% if session.logged_in %}
 <div style="margin-left:90px;padding-bottom:5px;margin-bottom:15px;display:inline-block;">
 <a class="bar-item" href="/admin/profile?actor_id={{follower.id}}">profile</a>
+
+{% if meta.notification_follows_back %}
+<span class="bar-item-no-hover">following</span>
+{% endif %}
+
 </div>
     {% endif %}
     <div style="height: 100px;">
diff --git a/templates/following.html b/templates/following.html
index f084d32..bdb5361 100644
--- a/templates/following.html
+++ b/templates/following.html
@@ -8,7 +8,8 @@
 {% include "header.html" %}
 
 <div id="following">
-	{% for (follow_id, follow) in following_data %}
+	{% for (follow_id, meta) in following_data %}
+    {% set follow = meta.object %}
     {% if session.logged_in %}
 <div style="margin-left:90px;padding-bottom:5px;margin-bottom:15px;display:inline-block;">
 <a class="bar-item" href="/admin/profile?actor_id={{follow.id}}">profile</a>
@@ -18,6 +19,9 @@
 <input type="hidden" name="csrf_token" value="{{ csrf_token() }}"/>
 <button type="submit" class="bar-item">unfollow</button>
 </form>
+{% if meta.notification_follows_back %}
+<span class="bar-item-no-hover">follows you back</span>
+{% endif %}
 
 {% if lists %}
 <form action="/api/add_to_list" class="action-form"  method="post">
@@ -48,6 +52,7 @@
 
 {% endif %}
 {% endfor %}
+
  
         </div>